Finally, Finally Spring

It has been a great week...I was able to have a day just for me this week, took JCG to daycare as usual and treated myself to a massage, a long walk, and falling asleep in the library. I was reprimanded for the last one but what a small price to pay for happiness!

I just want to write to capture some moments of late. I am so grateful for this little one. We were able to play outside in various parks over the last few days. Joaquin loves to be outside, he loves feeling the wind on his face. When we go to jungle gym areas, he wants to learn how to do all the tricks - he is climbing ladders, walking up slides, trying out the "mountain climbing" ropes, all of it. He wants to try everything. I am amazed that a few months ago he was toddling around bowl-legged, with week little thighs, unable to walk up an incline. Now he just scampers around with a little skip in his step. Yesterday we were at the park and he was playing with another little boy, probably a year older, who was afraid to try things, cried with frustration and gave up when he hit an obstacle. I was struck with gratefulness for Joaquin's temperament. He is curious, open, just wants to "get it." He is rarely hard on himself, and I've never seen him give up on something that was within his ability to learn. Today at church he tackled a new puzzle with shapes and colors. The first time was difficult, and he kept after it 3 more times until he had mastered it. His little eyes shine when he is learning.

I am so enjoying his company! Don't get me wrong, we have our moments, me especially when I miss grown-up time. Lately, though, I notice I'm more fully with him in the moment. It helps tremendously that we can spend a lot of time outside. Also, that I've been able to work in the yard when he's sleeping. Friday was one of the best days of my life. It consisted of playing with him in the park, working in the yard, making good food, giggling and reading books together. I am just treasuring our life right now. Savoring the moments is becoming my "new normal."

Joaquin is talking more and more, including new phrases. A brief list of examples:
"here it is"
"play outside"
"go school"
"socks on"
so many more but that captures the gist of it. He is speaking more and more using concepts, not just independent words. It's exciting for me to anticipate what he'll come up with next. Tonight at dinner he said "thank you mommy eat" and pointed to the food. Then he repeated thank you over and over throughout the meal. I am purposefully writing this down so that 10 years from now when he's a teenager I will have this fond memory!

I love this little boy more and more, if that is actually possible. I prayed that the experience of adopting JCG would open my heart, no matter how he came to me or what his needs were. Woa! My prayers have been answered and then some. Having him as my son is the greatest gift of my life.

"Nite Nite. Toast. School." (This what he says to me at the end of the day). He needs to confirm breakfast as well as plans for tomorrow.